Society is made up of two genders. Both of them equally affect and make up society. This is why both genders have issues and oppression.
But blaming “the patriarchy” for all of society’s issues is [nonsense]. We have women in politics. We have men in politics. We have women who act as the head of their household. We have men who act as the head of their household. Both genders influence society.
Blaming one gender for society’s problems doesn’t fix anything. Neither does saying only one gender has problems.
People have problems, and we should fix them regardless of gender.